Mikaya Heart Returns — Podcast #298 — 09/14/11
Hey sex fans, welcome back!
So glad you’re back for another big dose of SEX WISDOM with my amazing guest Mikaya Heart. As you recall from last week’s show, Mikaya is the author of The Ultimate Guide To Orgasm For Women; How to Become Orgasmic For A Lifetime.
You’ll also remember that in introducing last week’s show I said that Mikaya’s book is by far the best 
book about women’s sexuality that I have read in the past decade, if not longer. And apparently ya’ll agree, at least those of you who contacted me with your comments. Mikaya is so passionate and compassionate about women’s sexuality that if her name weren’t already Heart, the consensus is, we’d have to rechristen her that.
But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of our chat, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #297 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.
Mikaya and I discuss:
- The necessity of talking about sex;
- The power of fantasy in sex;
- The problem with disengaging our rational brain in sex;
- The spiritual dimension of orgasm;
- The shamanic sensibility of sex;
- Different kinds of orgasms;
- Sex as a metaphor for life;
- Sex and aging;
- The disappearing orgasm;
- The role of relationships;
- Love and sex.
Mikaya invites you to visit her on her site HERE! And look for her on Facebook HERE!
(Click on the book cover below for more information and to buy Mikaya’s book)
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Sex Wisdom with Mikaya Heart — Podcast #297 — 09/07/11
Hey sex fans, welcome back!
I hope you’re ready for some mighty fine SEX WISDOM, because that’s what’s comin’ your way. That’s right; this is the podcast series that is all about chatting with the movers and shakers in the 
field of human sexuality — researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers — all who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves. And today I have the honor of welcoming a woman of distinction; an award winning author, holistic healer, sought after public speaker, activist, shaman and even a kitesurfing instructor, don’t cha know. I have with me the one and only Mikaya Heart.
Mikaya is the author of The Ultimate Guide To Orgasm For Women; How to Become Orgasmic For A Lifetime. It is by far the best book about women’s sexuality that I have read in the past decade, if not longer. And that’s saying a lot, sex fans. Listen; if you’re a woman, or you know someone who is, this is a must read for you. I’m tellin’ ya; if this amazing book doesn’t change the way you look at yourself and your sexual responses, or change the way you relate to the women in your life, then my name isn’t Dr Dick!
Mikaya and I discuss:
- Women’s sexuality in general and orgasmic sexuality in particular;
- The pervasive ambivalence women have about sex;
- Her memoir, My Sweet Wild Dance;
- Her book tour and workshops;
- Her background;
- The incredible variety of women’s sexual response and arousal;
- How she found the interviewees for her book;
- The power of thinking and talking about sex;
- Defining sex and orgasm.
Mikaya invites you to visit her on her site HERE! And look for her on Facebook HERE!
(Click on the book cover below for more information and to buy Mikaya’s book)
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Jo Langford Returns — Podcast #284 — 06/08/11
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
I have the pleasure of welcoming back my friend, the marvelous Jo Langford. He is a therapist, educator, author and parent and he’s here for another helping of his spot-on teen and parental oriented SEX WISDOM.
I got so much positive feedback about last week’s show from ya’ll. And I totally agree with everything you said. Creating a healthier, more informed and sex-positive culture for young people, which is Jo’s mission, should also be our highest priority.
But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of this show, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #282 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.
Jo and I discuss:
- The parents’ role in sex education;
- Tips for the sex-squeamish parent;
- The sex-positive online resources for teens and their parents;
- A parents need to keep themselves educated;
- Kids and the meaning of sex;
- Making parent/kid sex education non-seductive;
- Contraception and safer sex;
- Helping young people deal with the internet porn they are likely to see;
- The legal and social aspects of sexting;
- His inspirations.
Jo invites you to visit him on his site HERE! And be sure to follow him on Twitter HERE!
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Get Some SEX WISDOM With Jo Langford — Podcast #282 — 06/01/11
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
I have some more fantastic SEX WISDOM for you today. This is, of course, the series where I chat with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are helping us take a fresh look at our sexual selves. And this week I have a very special show in store for you.
What if I told you that there is an entire population of people in this country and abroad who are woefully underserved with regard to access to clear and unambiguous information about human sexuality? You’d be outraged, huh? But would you even know what demographic I’m talking about?
Well, in case ya don’t, my guest today is here to help wake you up, so to speak, about this very pressing need. I am proud to welcome a fellow Seattlite and a new friend, the exceptional Jo Langford.
He is a top-notch therapist, educator and author and his primary outreach is to teens and young adults. He is the first of my guests in this series who works primarily with kids and the information he is about to share is both revealing and startling. Listen; if you are a teenager or know someone who is, then you’ll not want to miss this show, sex fans.
Jo and I discuss:
- His style of presenting to teens and their parents;
- “The Talk”;
- His background in forensic sexology;
- Sexually precocious kids;
- The sexual double standard for girls and boys;
- The dearth of sex resources for young people;
- Why parents avoid their role as primary sex educator;
- His soon to be published book;
- Kids getting their sex ed from porn;
- What kind of information do kids really need;
- Abstinence only programs;
- No one’s addressing the sexual needs and concerns of gay and lesbian kids;
- What young people think constitutes “sex”.
Jo invites you to visit him on his site HERE! And be sure to follow him on Twitter HERE!
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Pamela Madsen Returns — Podcast #281 — 05/25/11
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
I am so glad today has finally rolled around because sex educator, blogger, 
author motivational speaker, founder of The American Fertility Association and delightful diva, Pamela Madsen, promised she’d be back to dispense more of her signature SEX WISDOM. And sure enough she’s waiting in the wings.
But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of this show, which appeared here last week at this time, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #279 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.
Pamela and I discuss:
- Sacred intimacy;
- Dancing with her tribe of women;
- Acknowledging our desire;
- Sexological bodywork;
- Learning to receive pleasure;
- Power surrendering;
- Being shamed for being shameless;
- Secrets vs. privacy;
- Staying, not leaving;
- Her Shameless Community.
Pamela invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Her Psychology Today column is HERE! Look for her on The Fertility Advocate HERE! She’s on Facebook HERE! And enjoy her twitter feed HERE!
(Click on the book art below to get more information about her book.)
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Pamela Madsen’s signature SEX WISDOM — Podcast #279 — 05/18/11
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
Ya know I was thinking some weeks ago that we haven’t had a kick-ass SEX WISDOM podcast since Carol Queen was on my show way back in early march. This is, 
of course, the podcast series where I chat with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are helping us take a fresh look at our sexual selves. So I started to rummage through my little black book to find us the perfect person to break this sex wisdom drought. And guess who I found?
Well, I’ll tell ya. She is an amazing woman — she is a fertility/sex educator, blogger, author of: Shameless: How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure… and Somehow Got Home in Time to Cook Dinner, a motivational speaker and founder of The American Fertility Association. Here with me is the irrepressible Pamela Madsen. Prepare to laugh your ass off, sex fans. I know you will enjoy her as much as I do.
Pamela and I discuss:
- All of her “parts”;
- Her crooked mainstream life;
- Permission giving;
- Being a swell mommy;
- How her book got its title;
- It’s only kinky the first time;
- Tips for becoming visible;
- Her martini circle;
- Erotic massage for women;
- Her surrender.
Pamela invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Her Psychology Today column is HERE! Look for her on The Fertility Advocate HERE! She’s on Facebook HERE! And enjoy her twitter feed HERE!
(Click on the book art below to get more information about her book.)
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Carol Queen Returns — Podcast #267 — 03/09/11
My friend and colleague, Carol Queen, sexologist, writer, educator and activist is back with us today. This is Part 2 of her appearance for both the SEX WISDOM and the Play With It series. There’s way more interesting chat coming your way as soon as I finish these announcements.
But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of this delectable conversation, which appeared here last week at this time, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #266 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.
Carol and I discuss:
- Sex toys and couple play;
- Alt-porn, reshaping the porn industry;
- The enrichment value of sexually explicit material;
- Her history and current involvement in the industry;
- X-ed porn;
- Media literacy and watching porn;
- Our professional peers who denigrate sexually explicit materials;
- Sex addiction and what’s wrong with that concept;
- Her inspirations and her sexual heroes.
Carol invites you to visit her on her site HERE! She has a monthly column in the Good Vibrations Magazine HERE! She’s on Facebook HERE! And enjoy her twitter feed HERE!
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Carol Queen’s SEX WISDOM — Podcast #266 — 03/02/11
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
Holy cow, I’m giddy with excitement today, because I have an extraordinary show in store for you. We have an audience with the Queen. …ahh, no not that one, you silly geese. I’m 
talking about my colleague, Carol Queen, the sexologist, writer, speaker, educator, activist and I’m gonna add to that list — national treasure.
But wait; that’s not all! This show is a twofer, don’t cha know. My guest, our conversation and the themes discussed in this podcast easily fall into both the SEX WISDOM series and the Play With It series.
Carol is, of course, one of the movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality; who is making news and helping us take a fresh look at our sexual selves. She’s also a prominent figure in the adult products marketplace; helping reshape that industry as well.
Carol and I discuss:
- Being a sexological over-achiever;
- Founding one of the first gay/lesbian youth groups in the nation;
- Sexual orientation, affectional choices and gender;
- Bisexuality – the space between the binaries;
- The altering effect of strap-on sex;
- Removing the stigma of sex;
- Orgasm Inc.;
- Being one of the staff sexologists at Good Vibrations;
- Sex toy health concerns;
- The impact of sexologists in the adult products marketplace;
- Truth in advertising.
Carol invites you to visit her on her site HERE! She has a monthly column in the Good Vibrations Magazine HERE! She’s on Facebook HERE! And enjoy her twitter feed HERE!
(For a little icing on this already marvelous cake, enjoy some videos featuring Carol.)
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Christopher Ryan Returns — Podcast #259 — 01/26/11
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
Psychologist Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex At Dawn; The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality returns for Part 2 of our chat for this the SEX WISDOM podcast series. I can’t tell you how grateful I am that he has more time to spend with us today. And just so you know, today’s show is unusually long. But one probably should expect that since we cover most of human evolutionary history, don’t cha know. Christopher, however, makes the time fly by with his engaging, humorous style.
I sure hope you didn’t miss Part 1 of this exciting conversation, which appeared here last week at this time. But not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #257 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.
Christopher and I discuss:
- We aren’t descendant from apes, we ARE apes;
- Bonobos, a close ape relative, are regularly ignored by anthropologists;
- The Bonobo “handshake”;
- Fertility in hunter and gather societies;
- Monogamy or sexual exclusivity among the great apes;
- Polygynous societies reflect a male dominant economy;
- Social monogamy and sexual monogamy;
- The evolution of male genitalia among us apes;
- The scientific origins of the term promiscuous;
- Human sexual expression can be both profound and casual;
- Same-sex sexual expression;
- What the future holds for him and his work.
Christopher invites you learn more about Sex At Dawn by visiting their site HERE! Look for him on Facebook HERE! And enjoy his twitter feed HERE!
(Buy this book, sex fans. It’s a marvelous read.)
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Christopher Ryan’s SEX WISDOM — Podcast #257 — 01/19/11
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
I’m all a flutter, sex fans. I feel like the most popular boy in school just asked me to the prom. So ok, maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration. It’s more like the most popular boy in school just told me he wants to bugger me senseless. No, wait a minute; this isn’t coming out precisely as I hoped. Let’s just say that I’m thrilled to overflowing to have today’s guest join me for this SEX WISDOM podcast.
As you know, this series is all about talking with people who are changing the way we look at our sexual selves. And no one in this series so far has exceeded the impact of today’s guest on that discourse. I have the honor of welcoming psychologist, Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex At Dawn; The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality.
I confess; this book simply blew me away. And that’s pretty hard to do considering I’m such a jaded old queen. But honestly, I can’t remember being so impacted by anything I’ve read on the topic of human sexuality in like…evah! Sex At Dawn is nothing short of revolutionary. Despite this being a scholarly work, Christopher and his wife, Cacilda Jethá, have gone out of their way to make their presentation completely accessible even to a layman. There is nothing pretentious about it; the book is full of humor and fascinating antidotes. But I can assure you that it will reshape how you look at your own sexuality.
Christopher and I discuss:
- The book tour and the media’s response;
- The absence of a prescriptive element in the book;
- Humans, extremely libidinous apes;
- Our failure to question the default human sexual premise — long-term and sexually exclusive;
- Ingrained behavior not the same as human nature;
- Agriculture not the advance it’s cracked up to be;
- Prehistory is 95% of the human experience;
- The remnant hunter and gatherer societies;
- Classical evolutionary theory is contaminated with Victorian assumptions;
- The role of sex in hunter and gatherer societies;
- Historical reports of first contact with indigenous peoples.
Christopher invites you learn more about Sex At Dawn by visiting their site HERE! Look for him on Facebook HERE! And enjoy his twitter feed HERE!
Today’s podcast is bought to you by: Dr Dick’s Sex Advice and Dr Dick’s Sex Toy Review.
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