SEX WISDOM With Mandy Traut — Podcast #364 — 02/20/13
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
One of the things that makes my life so wonderful are opportunities, like this, to introduce you, my audience, to remarkable people you
probably would never know otherwise. This is particularly true for this the SEX WISDOM series, which brings you interviews with the movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality. I generally chat with colleagues well established in our field, but today I want to introduce you to someone just beginning her career. And what an illustrious career it will be. I am delighted to welcome a new friend and fellow therapist, Mandy Traut.
Mandy is a psychotherapist here in the Emerald City. She has a wonderful and engaging philosophy and therapeutic style that underscores her commitment to the health and wellbeing of her clients. And I am looking forward to getting to know her better right along with you.
Mandy and I discuss:
- The dehumanizing effect of the “disorder” designation;
- Her sex-positive credo;
- Her VISTA gig;
- Coming out as kinky;
- Body awareness and sexual health and wellbeing;
- Mindfulness and being grounded;
- Performance anxiety;
- Kinky vs. vanilla
- Meeting bendyogagirl;
- Context is everything.
Mandy invites you to visit her on her site HERE! You can also find her on Facebook HERE! And she’s on Twitter HERE!
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The Dog Days of Summer Q&A Show — Podcast #344 — 08/20/12
Hey sex fans,
My, my, my! It’s been six whole weeks since our last Q&A show. That’s not good. Because, ya know
what? I have a huge backlog of very interesting questions from the sexually worrisome. And this time around, all my correspondents are men. Why, that almost never happens. I trust you will find my responses will educate, enrich and maybe even entertain. With a little luck, I’ll even have just enough time to do a product review. Sound fun? I think so too.
Tyler is straight but has the urge to stuff his ass.
Paul has polio, but he still wants to jerk-off.
Robert and his partner are having big time relationship problems.
John need more sex than he’s getting at home.
Steven is pulling his pud a lot, now some of the sensations are gone..
Mike is having extreme muscle spasms after he cums.
Finally we review the Fat Boy Cock Sheath.
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A Summer Solstice Q&A Show — Podcast #337 — 06/18/12
Hey sex fans,
Happy Solstice everyone! Well, actually solstice isn’t until Wednesday, but who’s quibbling. Damn, this year is flying by. It seems like it was only a couple of weeks ago that we were welcoming spring. And, guess what? I just did the math; this is my 6th Summer Solstice podcast. Holy COW!
In honor of this milestone I have a delectable Q&A show in store for you today. We will be hearing a bunch of very interesting questions from the sexually worrisome, each will surely amaze and entertain. And I think we’ll have just enough time to do some SEX SCIENCE too. Stick around, sex fans, this is gonna be great!
- William is using AndroGel for low “T”. Will it get his dick to grow?
- Craig was snooping in his wife’s gym bag and found something interesting.
- Chris and I have a lengthy exchange about his deep-seeded sexual conflicts.
- Paula asks for my advice about purchasing a prostate massager for her hubby.
- Gerard has blood in his semen.
- Jenny asks if all fetuses start out as female. This triggers a SEX SCIENCE tutorial.
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Q&A for the end of April — Podcast #330 — 04/30/12
Hey sex fans,
I have a delectable Q&A show in store for you today to close out the month of April. We will be hearing a
bunch of very interesting questions from the sexually worrisome, each will surely amaze and entertain. There’s a distinct religious overtone to some of these questions and there’s also more than a hint of desperation. Oh how I feel their pain.
- Brian calls in while he’s jerkin’ off.
- Nick calls in to tell us about his massive ass toys.
- Richie is troubled by what the Church told him about being gay.
- Lyn has been around the block a time or ten, her new BF is a virgin.
- Hamlet is so stressed out he can’t keep his hardon.
- Éric is wasting his money trying to grow himself a bigger dick. I suggest that he take a look at this POSTING.
- Dan isn’t even through puberty yet and he’s worried about the size of his willie. I suggest he take a look at this VIDEO.
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Dr Cheryl Cohen Greene Returns — Podcast #327 — 04/04/12
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
Renowned sexologist and surrogate partner therapist, Dr Cheryl Cohen Greene is back with us today to dispense more of her signature SEX WISDOM. And if you thought last week’s show was marvelous, as so many of you did, you’re gonna love today’s show even more.
But wait; you didn’t miss Part 1 of our conversation, did you? Well not to worry if you did, because you will find it and all of my shows in the podcast archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the header, type in podcast #326 and Voilà! But don’t forget to use the #sign when you do your search.
Cheryl and I discuss:
- The blind spots some therapists have regarding surrogate partner therapy;
- IPSA surrogate training;
- Recommending this work to others;
- What she looks for in others considering a career as a surrogate partner;
- Sex positions;
- Sexual compulsions and obsessions;
- Sex toys;
- Keeping things interesting for couples in long-term relationships;
- Who inspires her and her sexual heroes;
- Advice for the aspiring sexologist.
Cheryl invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Find her on Facebook HERE and her noteworthy blog HERE!
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The SEX WISDOM of Dr Cheryl Cohen Greene — Podcast #326 — 03/28/12
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
Holy cow, do I have a fantastic show in store for you today. Despite the numerous remarkable guests that have appeared on this the SEX WISDOM series, there’s no one who can lay a hand on today’s guest. I’m so pleased to welcome my good friend, my trusted colleague and my bosom buddy for nearly 20 years, the amazing Dr Cheryl Cohen Greene. I can’t wait for you to meet her, because I know you will love her as much as I do.
Cheryl is a fellow sexologist, however her career path has been significantly different than mine. She is certified surrogate partner, don’t cha know. And she’s been working as such for 38 years. She is renowned in her field, so much so that she and one of her former clients are the subjects of a major motion picture, staring John Hawkes, Helen Hunt and William H. Macy, which comes out later this year. You can be certain that I will press Cheryl for all the juicy details.
Cheryl and I discuss:
- How we met;
- Her lengthy career;
- The shift from sex surrogate to surrogate partner;
- Her friend and colleague Shai Rotem;
- Common issues she sees in her practice;
- Role modeling good relationships;
- Her former client, poet and journalist, Mark O’Brian;
- Being at Sundance for the movie premiere;
- Surrogate as sex worker;
- The legality of surrogate partner work;
- Surrogate partner training;
- How prospective clients find her.
Cheryl invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Find her on Facebook HERE and her noteworthy blog HERE!
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. That’s Dr Dick’s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Don’t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.
Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
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5th Anniversary Show — Podcast #320 — 02/13/12
Hey sex fans,
Hey everybody, Happy Valentine’s Day! And guess what? This week’s show marks my fifth anniversary of podcasting. I know! Isn’t that fuckin great? I mean who would have guessed that we’d enjoy such a long run.
And what a year it has been too. I brought you fascinating interviews with remarkable people for all of my series. Play With It series, which features conversations with folks in the adult products industry. The Sex EDGE-U-cation series, which features chats with kinksters and porn stars and advocates of alternative lifestyles. The SEX WISDOM series, which brings you interviews with the movers and shakers n the field of human sexuality. And, of course, The Erotic Mind series, which is now four years old.
But today I have a bunch of very interesting questions from the sexually worrisome to dazzle you with. So let’s launch ourselves into year #6 with a bang.
- Danny has a short fuse.
- Daniel asks about sex after a prostatectomy.
- Janet wants to know which sex toys are right for her and her partner.
- Terria Lee has new a heavy hung BF, but the fuck is uncomfortable.
- Loveuniforms want to know about piss enemas.
- Amber is experiencing painful intercourse too.
- Ash has a thing for the people she sees in porn, but not in real life.
- Nikky has only one ball. Will that be a problem?
- Kristin thinks her partner might be cheating on her.
- Robin wants to crossdress and be submissive, but will he allow himself to do that?
Today’s podcast is bought to you by: Dr Dick’s Sex Advice and Dr Dick’s Sex Toy Review.
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Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
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The New Year’s First Q&A Show — Podcast #315 — 01/09/12
Hey sex fans, welcome back!
Holy cow, the new year is upon us and I’m all refreshed from my winter break and rarin’ to go. So it’s time to crank up the old microphone so I can bring you another Q&A show.
Say, did you know that this year marks my fifth year in podcasting? The actual anniversary isn’t for another month, but I thought I’d take this opportunity to toot my own horn, so to speak. And I foresee lots of very exciting programming coming your way in 2012.
But now I have this great show in store for you. Because it’s always a thrill to discover what my correspondents toss my way. And you can always count on me, your intrepid sexologist, to respond with clever, resourceful and oh so informative responses. Hey, it’s what I do!
This week we hear from
- P wants to E-stim both himself and his partner at the same time.
- Kyle wonders about tight pussies…I think.
- Haans and his wife are blissful.
- Chatt Mann is not sure if it’s a good thing to bust his nut in a chick’s mouth.
- Matt is way more kinky than he’s letting on and he is letting on a lot.
- Minou is interested in safe scrotal infusion play.
- Joey is gettin fucked by heavy-hung black guys.
- Christopher Ryan and I discuss the “cock factor” in straight porn.
- Lee asks about the advisability of using E-stim with his inflatable penile implant.
Today’s podcast is bought to you by: Dr Dick’s Sex Advice and Dr Dick’s Sex Toy Review.
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
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Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
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Mac McGregor Returns — Podcast #314 — 12/21/11
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
Happy Solstice everyone! Here we are at yet another change in the seasons. Depending on
where you live, the winter or summer solstice is upon us. And regardless the relentless march of time; there’s something about the changing of the seasons that I find very comforting. Just think, before ya know it we will be welcoming the equinox. I love the predictability of it all
This show also marks the end of the 2011 edition of my podcasts. We’ll all be on holiday for the next couple of weeks, don’t cha know. Podcasts will resume on Monday, January 9th, 2012 with a brand spankin’ new Q&A show.
To see us to the door, today so to speak, I’m delighted to welcome back my friend, Mac McGregor. He is a transman, author, activist, gender and sex educator, world-class martial artist and Seattle City Commissioner. He returns for Part 2 of his appearance on this the SEX WISDOM series.
But wait; you didn’t miss Part 1 of our conversation, did you? Well not to worry if you did, because you will find it and all of my shows in the podcast archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the header, type in podcast #313 and PRESTO! But don’t forget to use the #sign when you do your search.
Mac and I discuss:
- The binary myth;
- Surprising sexual awakenings;
- The new term “gender queer”;
- The gender specificity of language;
- The shift from transsexual to transgender;
- A question of vanity;
- The Ingersoll Gender Center;
- Sex work in the trans community;
- Activism and sex education;
- The search for kink positive and sex positive healing and helping professionals.
Mac invites you to visit him on his site HERE! Find him on Facebook HERE and Twitter HERE!
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
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Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
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The SEX WISDOM of Mac McGregor — Podcast #313 — 12/14/11
Hello sex fans! Welcome back.
Holy cow, we’re pert near the end of the year. Where does the time go? Everyone here is looking forward to our annual winter holiday. That’s right, we have only one more week of diligence till
we wrap things up for this year and disappear for a couple of weeks.
However, you know that old saying; saving the best for last? Well in a way that’s what going on today. Despite having a sting of remarkable guests for this the SEX WISDOM series, there’s no beating today’s guest. I’m so stoked to welcome the one and only Mac McGregor to the show.
Mac is a transman, author, activist, gender and sex educator, world-class martial artist and Seattle City Commissioner, don’t cha know. And if that’s not enough to float your boat, he’s also as funny as hell. I am so proud to share a microphone with this amazing man.
Mac and I discuss:
- A shout out to Seattle sex icon, Allena Gabosch;
- Working on his book titled: Unbroken;
- All attractions are not physical;
- Being a sexual outlaw;
- Finding refuge in the dyke world;
- Gender and genitals;
- Cultural prejudices;
- Tomboys and sissies;
- Who determines gender;
- Sexual expression and behaviors;
- Gender queer youth;
- Cisgender.
Mac invites you to visit him on his site HERE! Find him on Facebook HERE and Twitter HERE!
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. That’s Dr Dick’s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Don’t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.
Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!
Look for my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously, or just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.




