Podcast #103 – 02/25/09
Hey sex fans,
Today I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a friend and colleague, Scott Mallinger, a.k.a.
Scott Daddy, to those who know and love him. (So that’s why I call him Sir.) Just kidding!
Scott is a BDSM journalist, lecturer, leather titleholder and Dom all rolled into that most charming package. And he has the most wonderful sense of humor, as you will soon discover. Scott is my second guest in this new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation.
Through this series we’ll take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. And I will be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the
world.
This new series will continue to appear on Wednesdays. My regular weekly podcast, which often contains The Erotic Mind interviews, will continue on Mondays.
Scott and I discuss:
- The meaning of Power Play.
- Kink — behavior outside the social norm. But how decides the norm?
- Cathartic and recreational aspects of BDSM.
- Working definitions for: Negotiation, Safeword, Scene and Aftercare.
Be sure to visit Scott Daddy at his website: scottdaddy.com
Podcast #102 — 02/23/09
Hey sex fans,
I have an exceptional show in store for you. Today, we return to my series of interviews with noted erotic artists called The Erotic Mind, As you know, we’ve been chatting with these ingenious people in hopes of uncovering something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.
Sex fans, I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming the reigning king of gay erotic fiction. No wait, I need to correct that. My guest is actually the reigning king of all erotica, the amazing James Lear.
James is a prolific author and novelist. His work is recognized all over the world as topnotch. In fact, he was named “Best Writer” at the 2008 Erotic Awards. No mean feat that, I can tell ya.
And as a special treat, James will share with us a juicy morsel of the delectable fruit of his Erotic Mind. You don’t want to miss this, people!
James and I discuss:
- His nom de plume?
- His very successful career and how it began.
- His diverse audience of both women and men, gay and straight.
- Who is writing gay erotic fiction these days.
- The Slash Fiction phenomenon.
- Breaking down traditional writing niches.
- Avoiding clichés when creating sex scenes.
And like I said, James serves up a juicy bit of his own erotica.
Be sure to visit James at his MySpace page HERE!
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. That’s Dr Dick’s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Don’t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.
Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!
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Podcast #101 – 02/18/09
Hey sex fans,
I am delighted to welcome back my distinguished guest, Dart, for Part 2 of our chat about Power
Exchange, BDSM and role playing . He is the Toronto based yet internationally known and respected bondage artist, educator, leather titleholder and Dom.
This is my new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation. It’s all about the fascinating world of fetish sex and kink and alternative lifestyles. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. We’ll chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.
If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amazing interview, look for Podcast #99 on Dr Dick’s Podcasts page. Look for the tab at the top of the page.
Dart and I discuss:
- Working definitions for Scene, Negotiation, Safe Word.
- Learning to embrace one’s kinks and fetishes.
- How he got his start as a Dom.
- Puppy play and other role-play.
- What he’s into as a Dom.
- Tips for the novice on approaching the BDSM scene.
- His sexual heroes.
Click the banner below to visit Dart’s website.
Podcast #100 — 02/16/09
Hey sex fans,
HOLY COW, it’s another milestone! Last week Wednesday’s show marked my second anniversary of podcasting. Today’s show is my 100th Podcast! Isn’t that fuckin amazing?
Those of you who are paying attention know that I’ve added a second podcast per week, on Wednesdays. And for those of you who haven’t been paying attention; listen up! I needed to add another podcast per week because I’m doing a new series of interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation.
This series will take a look at the fascinating world of fetish sex and kink. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. I guarantee that our investigation will be interesting, stimulating and very informative. And I can say that with such confidence because I will be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.
This new series, which premiered last Wednesday, February 11th, will continue to appear on Wednesdays. This, my original weekly podcast, will continue on Mondays. How sweet is that?
Today we take a break from The Erotic Mind interviews and return to our traditional question and answer format. I have a hot load of oh so stimulating questions.
- Todd, the budding kinkster, returns with more questions.
- JOE D want to get it up the ass, but he don’t know how.
- Zoey’s husband thinks she’s just OK in the sack. WHAT?
- Mike is takin the submissive thing a bit far, in my estimation.
- Tom, the American, and Matt, the Brit, both have the same problem.
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. That’s Dr Dick’s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Don’t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.
Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.
Podcast #99 – 02/11/09
Hey sex fans,
SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT, SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT! Today’s podcast marks my 2nd anniversary of bringing you these audio editions of my sex advice column.
To celebrate this milestone I’ve decided to launch a new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation.
In this series we will take a look at the fascinating world of kink and fetish sex. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. I guarantee that our investigation will be thought-provoking, stimulating and very informative. And I can say that with such confidence because we will be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.
This new series, which premieres today, will continue to appear on Wednesdays. However, my regular weekly podcast will continue on Mondays.
I am exceptionally pleased to welcome my first guest in this series; the Toronto based yet internationally known and respected bondage artist, educator, leather titleholder and Dom. My inaugural guest is none other than the man they call Dart. You know you’re good when you only have to use one name.
Dart and I discuss:
- Working definitions for Power Play, BDSM, Fetish and Kink.
- Why would “normal” people get involved in this stuff.
- The role of endorphins and adrenaline in power play.
- Being both Dom and Sub.
- The pain/pleasure edge.
- Cathartic and recreational aspects of Power Exchange.
Click the banner below to visit Dart’s website.
Podcast #98 – 02/09/09
Hey sex fans,
Today I bring you more fun with Dick and Jane, I mean Jolene. That would be the erotic author,
poetess, and burlesque queen, Jolene Hui. She joins us again this week to finish the conversation we began last week. This is, of course, part of my series of interviews called The Erotic Mind.
If you somehow missed Part 1 of this delightful and provocative discussion look for last week’s podcast, #97.
And be sure to visit Jolene’s site HERE!
Today Jolene and I discuss:
- What distinguishes erotica from porn.
- How reading or writing erotica can enrich a person’s life.
- What she looks for in the work of other erotic artists.
- Advice for aspiring authors.
- What the future hold for her and her work
Jolene also serves up two luscious morsels of her own girl-on-girl erotica.
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Listen, sex fans, there’s some BIG news to tell you about. I am about to launch another series of podcast interviews called — Sex EDGE-U-cation.
We will be taking a look at the fetish and kink world. My guests for this series will be prominent practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles. We will discuss topics like BDSM and power play. I am confident that this new series, which premieres this Wednesday, February 11th, will be interesting, stimulating and very informative. Don’t miss it!
Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.
Podcast #97 – 02/02/09
Hey sex fans,
Today’s show begins with Miss Dolly Parton singin’ her little heart out. I know what you’re thinking;
why that particular song, Dr Dick? Well I’ll tell ya! I’m setting the mood for my very special guest. Today I have the distinct pleasure of introducing you to one of the bad girls of erotic fiction. I am honored to have with me — the ever beautiful and oh so talented Jolene Hui.
As you know, we’ve been chatting with noted erotic artists from all over the globe in this series of interviews I’m calling: The Erotic Mind. We’re looking to uncover something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.
Jolene is a journalist, a playwright and a prolific author of literary and erotic fiction and just about anything else her fingers feel like typing. She’s as sizzlin’ hot as her fiction and has a wicked sense of humor, as you will soon discover. But wait there’s more! Jolene treats us to a very explicit and oh so appetizing morsel from one of her short stories. Believe me sex fans; this is not to be missed!
You can visit Jolene online HERE!
Jolene and I discuss:
- Why she writes under her real name.
- Her successful career and how it began.
- Where she finds her inspiration.
- Building the sexual tension in erotic fiction.
- Writing for different audiences.
And as promised, Jolene serves up a juicy selection of her own erotica.
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. That’s Dr Dick’s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Don’t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.
Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!
Look for my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.









